The hanky code was originally developed by gay men as a method of communicating with potential partners in noisy bars. Today, it has been adopted by people of all orientations who are into some form of kink, fetish or BDSM. The use of the hanky code, also called flagging, does not necessarily imply that a person is looking for a partner, nor that a person is gay. It is simply a symbol of pride in one's self, and is a possible shortcut to get a fellow perv to say, "Hi!".
Fold the hanky of your choice into a neat rectangle, and tuck it in one of the rear pockets of your pants, leaving between half an inch and a full inch showing.
Air Force Blue
Pilot / Flight Attendant
Likes Flyboys
Apricot
Chubby
Chubby Chaser
Baseball Cap
Coach
Jock
Beige
Rimmer
Rimmee
Beige Lace
Likes White Bottoms
Likes White Tops
Black
S&M Top
S&M Bottom
Black & Blue Checks
Boxer
Punching Bag
Black & Red Stripes
Vampire
Victim
Black & White Checked
Safe S&M Top
Safe S&M Bottom
Black & White Stripes
Likes Black Bottoms
Likes Black Tops
Black Lace
Brander
Brandee
Black Velvet
Takes Snapshots / Videos
Not Camera Shy
Blue & White Checked
Safe Sex Top
Safe Sex Bottom
Brown
Scat Top
Scat Bottom
Brown & White Stripes
Likes Hispanic Bottoms
Likes Hispanic Tops
Brown Corduroy
Headmaster
Student
Brown Lace
Uncut
Likes Uncut
Buffing Cloth
Polish My Boots
Bootlicker
Burgundy
Mudder
Muddee
Calico
Tourist / New In Town
Likes Fresh Meat
Camo Green
Seeks Military Bottom
Seeks Military Top
Chain Collar
Looking For Slave
Looking For Master
Chamois
Rides Bike
Likes Bikers
Charcoal
Latex / Rubber Top
Latex / Rubber Bottom
Cocktail Napkin
Bartender
Bar Fly
Coral
Foot Fetish Top
Shrimper (toe sucker)
Cream
Cums into Scumbags
Sucks Scumbags
Dark Blue
Anal Sex Top
Anal Sex Bottom
Dark Blue & Black Checked
Safe Fucker
Safe Fuckee
Dark Blue & Black Stripes
Bareback Fucker
Bareback Fuckee
Dark Pink
Tit Torturer
Tit Torturee
Dark Red (F)
Dildo Fucker
Gets Fucked
Dark Red (M)
Two-Handed Fister
Two-Handed Fistee
Dirty Jockstrap
Wears A Dirty One
Likes A Dirty One
Dog Collar
Dog Trainer
Dog
Doily
Tearoom Top (pours)
Tearoom Bottom (drinks)
Enema Nozzle
Enema Top
Enema Bottom
Fuchsia
Spanker
Likes to Get Spanked
Fur
Bestiality Top
Bestiality Bottom
Fuschia
Spanker
Spankee
Gold
Two Looking For One
One Looking For Two
Gold Lace
Involved But Available Top
Involved But Available Bottom
Gold Lamé (F)
Cutter
Likes to Get Cut
Gold Lamé (M)
Likes Bodybuilder Bottoms
Likes Bodybuilder Tops
Gray
Bondage Top
Bondage Bottom
Gray Flannel
Owns A Suit
Likes Men In Suits
Green & Yellow Stripes
Trainer
Human Animal
Green Lace
Mother
Daughter
Gun Rag
Gun Play Top
Gun Play Bottom
Handywipe
Gives Oil Massages
Wears It Well
Holstein
Milker
Milkee
Hounds Tooth
Biter
Likes To Be Bitten
Hunter Green
Daddy
Boy
Jockstrap
Wears One
Likes Jockstraps
Kelly Green
Hustler (for rent)
John (looking to buy)
Kewpie Doll
Chicken
Chickenhawk
Keys In Back
Need A Place To Stay
I Need A Ride
Keys In Front
Have A Home
Have A Car
Kleenex
Stinks
Sniffs
Lavender
Likes Drag
Drag Queen
Leopard
Has Tattoos
Likes Tattoos
Light Blue
Wants Head
Gives Head
Light Blue & Black Dots
Likes Black Suckers
Likes To Suck Blacks
Light Blue & Brown Dots
Likes Latino Suckers
Likes To Suck Latinos
Light Blue & White Dots
Likes White Suckers
Likes To Suck Whites
Light Blue & White Stripe
Sailor
In Search of Seamen
Light Blue & Yellow Dots
Likes Asian Suckers
Likes To Suck Asians
Light Pink (F)
Tit Fondler
Tit Fondlee
Light Pink (M)
Dildo Fucker
Dildo Fuckee
Lime Green (F)
Humiliator
Humiliation Bottom
Lime Green (M)
Dines Off Tricks (food)
Dinner Plate
Magenta
Suck My Pits
Armpit Freak
Maroon
Likes Menstruating Women
Is Menstruating Woman
Mauve
Likes Navel Worship
Navel Worshipper
Medium Blue
Cop
Likes Cops
Mosquito Netting
Outdoor Sex, Top
Outdoor Sex, Bottom
Mustard
Hung 8" or more
Wants 8" or More
Navy Blue
Fucker
Fuckee
Olive Drab / Camouflage
Military / Uniform Top
Military / Uniform Bottom
Orange
Anything Goes
Not Now, Thanks
Orange & Black Stripes
Rapist (Nonconsensuality Top)
Rape Victim (Nonconsensuality Bottom)
Paisley
Wears Boxers
Likes Boxers
Pale Yellow
Spit Play Top
Spit Play Bottom
Peach
Bear
Cub
Piece Of Studded Leather
Sash Queen (Titleholder)
Looking For A Sash Queen
Pink
Plays With Toys
Receives Those Toys
Pink & White Stripes
Likes American Indian Bottoms
Likes American Indian Tops
Purple
Piercer
Likes to Get Pierced
Rainbow Stripe
Pig Top
Pig Bottom
Rebel Flag
Fights To Be Top
Fights To Be Bottom
Red
Fist Fucker
Fist Fuckee
Red & Blue Checks
Furry Bear
Wants a Hairy Man
Red & White Checked
Brander or Cutter
Brandee or Cutee
Red & White Checked
Safe Fister
Safe Fistee
Red & White Gingham
Park Sex Top
Park Sex Bottom
Red & White Stripes
Shaver
Shavee
Red & Yellow Check
Gives Enemas
Wants an Enema
Red Lace
Group Sex
Group Sex Bottom
Red Sock
Foot Fucker
Foot Fuckee
Robin's Egg Blue
Sixty-niner
Sixty-niner
Rosary
Ritual Scenes, Top
Ritual Scenes, Bottom
Rust
Cowboy
Likes Cowboys
Saran Wrap (F)
Voyeur
Exhibitionist
Saran Wrap (M)
Mummifier
Mummy
Silver
Electrician
Shock Absorber
Silver Lamé (M)
Star Fucker
Star
Stethoscope
Doctor
Patient
Tan
Smokes Cigars
Likes Cigars
Teal Blue
Cock & Ball Torturer
Cock & Ball Torturee
Teddy Bear
Cuddler
Cuddlee
Terrycloth
Bathhouse Top
Bathhouse Bottom
Toothbrush
Lovers Out - Place OK
Your Place Only
Torn Blue Denim
Rough Trade
Sissyboy
Turquoise
Catheterizer
Catheterizee
Union Jack
Skinhead Tough
Skinhead Punk
Vacuum Cleaner Bag
Vacuum Pumper
Vacuum Pumpee
White
Masturbate Me
Will Masturbate
White & Multicolor Dots
Hosting An Orgy
Wants An Invitation
White Lace (F)
Victorian Top
Victorian Bottom
White Lace (M)
Likes White Bottoms
Likes White Tops
White Velvet
Voyeur (likes to watch)
Will Put On A Show
Yellow
Water Sports / Pisser
Water Sports / Pissee
Yellow & White Stripes
Likes Asian Bottoms
Likes Asian Tops